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Running To, Not From: My Plan to Fund Freedom, Travel, and a New Life
The author outlines a transformative journey towards personal freedom, delineating short, medium, and long-term goals for reclaiming their life. They’ve shifted from a restrictive existence to creating a vibrant home, generating passive income through renting a spare room, and evolving into a potential mental health facilitator. A significant pilgrimage to key historical sites is planned,…
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Healing from Toxic Relationships: Building a Chosen Tribe
The author chronicles the journey of building a supportive community of strong women and non-toxic men, contrasting chosen relationships with family ties that can be harmful. Through stories of various friendships, each unique and nurturing, she highlights the power of unconditional acceptance, vulnerability, and encouragement in overcoming past trauma. This new tribe fosters her growth,…
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Choosing Integrity Over Blood: A Grandmother’s Stance on Alcoholism and Boundaries
The author expresses her heartbreak over her son’s ex-partner moving away with her grandchildren but chooses to support the decision for their wellbeing. Rejecting societal expectations, she prioritises love and accountability over biological loyalty, emphasising the importance of the children’s safety and emotional health, while committing to remain connected.
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The Boundary Laboratory: Testing My New Teeth TLDR: I’m no longer a “yes” machine. I’ve learned that “No” is a complete sentence, and ‘No Contact’ is a valid life-saving measure. The 30-Year Ghost: A Study in Red Flags Back in the early days of January 2024, when I was still 100% self-blame and devastation, an…
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The author returns to blogging after a brief hiatus to bridge the gap between the past and the present. Breaking her usual 12-month posting delay, she shares why it is finally time to complete the picture, moving from the wreckage of the past into a life of genuine thriving.
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Recovering from a Long-Term Relationship: The 5 Stages of Grief
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The author reflects on the tumultuous journey of healing after a long-term relationship, likening it to the stages of grief. They detail experiences of denial, depression, bargaining, anger, and acceptance, emphasizing the non-linear nature of healing. Ultimately, the author finds freedom and strength in overcoming emotional turmoil, appreciating their resilience.
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Recognising and Recovering from Marital Abuse
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If you ‘feel’ like you raped your partner, you almost certainly did. 26/06/24 TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of marital rape. DISCLAIMER: The contents of this post should NOT be taken as any form of advice or guidance; it is merely an account of a personal exploration. Any actions taken by others in relation to the contents…
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Reframing Childhood Trauma: Unveiling Harmful Beliefs
The writer traces the link between traumatic childhood experiences and harmful adult behaviors, focusing on a specific incident of unjust punishment. The impact of this experience is examined, revealing the writer’s journey of self-healing and recognition of unhealthy coping mechanisms. Through mindfulness and self-compassion, they seek to overcome past trauma and embrace their true self.
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Dealing with Family Dynamics: Understanding, Coping, and Healing
The post reflects on familial dysfunction and the challenges of navigating relationships shaped by childhood dynamics. The author realizes that familial interactions are often rigid and transactional, leading to emotional distance. Despite deep love, family gatherings are awkward, and informal communication is rare. As the author works on personal growth and setting boundaries, they strive…
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Moving On: Letting Go of Emotional Baggage
The author expresses relief at discarding unwanted furniture that symbolized a troubled marriage. The hand-me-downs from EH’s sister were a reminder of financial strain and emotional distance in the relationship. Despite EH’s attempts to evoke regret, the author’s transformation reflects newfound clarity about their separation, understanding EH’s controlling behavior, and reaffirming their decision to move…
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