Family
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Why ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ is a Myth: Finding Your Chosen Family After Abuse
Addiction, Artistic Creations, calm, Childhood Trauma, Cooking, Dating, Family, Friends, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on the concept of unconditional acceptance, contrasting it with the popular notion that familial bonds should be prioritized. They emphasize the importance of finding and nurturing connections based on mutual choice rather than birth. Acknowledging their journey towards self-acceptance, the author discusses healing from negative self-talk and aims to build a supportive…
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In a recent phone conversation, the author shared personal decisions with their mother, including a new surname and the choice to stop sending gifts to certain family members. The mother’s disapproving responses prompted reflection on their growth, as they realized they no longer seek approval from her. In contrast, a supportive friend, Altan, validated their…
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I’m So Glad He Left: Reaching the Pinnacle of Detachment After Narcissistic Abuse
abuse, Addiction, Anxiety, calm, Childhood Trauma, Family, grief, Healthy Boundaries, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy
The author reflects on the liberation felt after a difficult relationship, expressing gratitude for their ex-partner’s absence. They discuss personal healing, recognizing growth characterized by newfound clarity and independence. Despite lingering anger, there is a sense of cautious optimism about the future. The internal struggle between past pain and emerging self is acknowledged, showing progress…
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The author expresses deep gratitude for Frazzled Café, a supportive community that aids emotional healing. Despite feeling a unique sadness post-psilocybin macrodose, the author finds solace through mindfulness practices and the understanding of group members. The Café provides a judgment-free space for sharing and connection, fostering personal growth and resilience. Attending meetings is emphasized as…
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After years of trauma recovery, the search for a truly untarnished childhood memory seemed impossible. Read the unexpected moment a common smell – hot iron on cotton – unlocked a memory of safety and pure love needed for true healing.
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This post outlines the author’s personal journey with psilocybin use, emphasizing the importance of a structured “container” for safe and beneficial experiences. Key elements include preparation, setting intentions, ensuring a supportive environment, and performing integration work post-trip. The author shares five progressive intentions aimed at emotional healing and personal growth, highlighting the significance of mindset…
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The author has discovered a technique to shift from negativity to positivity by adding “but fortunately” to negative thoughts, finding silver linings in tough situations. Enduring years of negativity, the author seeks free resources to retrain thought patterns. Despite financial constraints, the “But fortunately” technique shows promise as a self-help method.
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The author shares their experience of offering sanctuary to someone fleeing conflict and how the individual, Simon, has integrated and thrived in their home. Simon’s positive and caring nature is highlighted through anecdotes of humorous mishaps and his resilience in adapting to a new life. Despite facing challenges, Simon embraces new experiences, expresses himself unabashedly,…
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The writer faces the heartbreaking reality of being cut off from their grandchildren due to their parents’ toxic relationship. This has led to a process of letting go, symbolized by packing up the grandchildren’s belongings. Amidst the pain, the writer focuses on personal growth and finding solace in possibilities ahead.
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The post describes the writer’s encounter with her ex and her determination to not let negative emotions consume her. She finds solace in nature, expressing her desire to move on from bitterness and anger. The writer reflects on her progress in maintaining boundaries and practicing self-care, despite the ongoing grief due to experiences within the…
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