Addiction
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The author traces their lifelong relationship with writing – their escape and ally – and shares how a 20-year marriage depleted them until they finally picked up the pen again to reclaim their voice, self-expression, and power.
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In this raw recovery journal, the author explores how past moments of shame – from childhood bullying to standing by during an attack – became the necessary fuel to redefine their life, find courage, and finally start to fully heal from childhood abuse and marriage to a covert narcissistic.
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Why ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ is a Myth: Finding Your Chosen Family After Abuse
Addiction, Artistic Creations, calm, Childhood Trauma, Cooking, Dating, Family, Friends, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on the concept of unconditional acceptance, contrasting it with the popular notion that familial bonds should be prioritized. They emphasize the importance of finding and nurturing connections based on mutual choice rather than birth. Acknowledging their journey towards self-acceptance, the author discusses healing from negative self-talk and aims to build a supportive…
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I’m So Glad He Left: Reaching the Pinnacle of Detachment After Narcissistic Abuse
abuse, Addiction, Anxiety, calm, Childhood Trauma, Family, grief, Healthy Boundaries, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy
The author reflects on the liberation felt after a difficult relationship, expressing gratitude for their ex-partner’s absence. They discuss personal healing, recognizing growth characterized by newfound clarity and independence. Despite lingering anger, there is a sense of cautious optimism about the future. The internal struggle between past pain and emerging self is acknowledged, showing progress…
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Venting to Let Go 26/10/24 DISCLAIMER: The contents of this post should NOT be taken as any form of advice or guidance; it is merely an account of a personal exploration. Any actions taken by others in relation to the contents of this post are entirely their own responsibility. Consideration should always be given to…
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After ending a relationship, the author reflects on changing their ex’s name in their phone as a therapeutic step. Initially resistant, the author adopted increasingly humorous names, eventually settling on “Three” to signify being the third marriage. This decision provided emotional detachment, reduced negative reactions, and highlighted the importance of small actions in reclaiming personal…
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The author reflects on their healing journey using lawn care as a metaphor. After a neglectful relationship, they’ve taken responsibility for personal growth, overcoming fears and nurturing their well-being through various means. Realizing the need for freedom, they confront their ex about divorce, asserting control over their life. Ultimately, this act of empowerment leads to…
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The post reflects on the process of confronting past trauma, emphasizing the struggle with procrastination and self-acceptance. After a challenging task, the writer experiences intense emotions, including relief and sorrow, when realizing past abuse. The journey is framed as a path towards self-responsibility and empowerment. The day ultimately symbolizes progress, self-love, and reclaiming control over…
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The writer faces the heartbreaking reality of being cut off from their grandchildren due to their parents’ toxic relationship. This has led to a process of letting go, symbolized by packing up the grandchildren’s belongings. Amidst the pain, the writer focuses on personal growth and finding solace in possibilities ahead.
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The post describes the writer’s encounter with her ex and her determination to not let negative emotions consume her. She finds solace in nature, expressing her desire to move on from bitterness and anger. The writer reflects on her progress in maintaining boundaries and practicing self-care, despite the ongoing grief due to experiences within the…
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