Exercise and Fitness
-
A Blueprint for Love: Defining a Relationship Free of Shame and Control After Narcissistic Abuse
Artistic Creations, calm, Cooking, Dating, Exercise and Fitness, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Joy, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Self Healing, sex, travel, Writing
The content describes a loving and supportive relationship with a man named Bear. He is described as kind, supportive, and respectful. The author appreciates his encouragement, emotional support, and the way he enriches her life without overshadowing it. She expresses readiness to meet him in the real world when she feels healed and whole.
-
Celebrating My Birthday: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Artistic Creations, Beer, calm, Cooking, DIY, Exercise and Fitness, Football, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on their 56th birthday as a transformative rebirth, celebrating personal growth after a difficult separation. They express pride in overcoming past fears and embracing self-care. A successful solo visit to a local craft beer bar solidifies this progress, highlighting newfound confidence and joy. The author anticipates further adventures and connections, feeling optimistic…
-

The author reflects on their healing journey using lawn care as a metaphor. After a neglectful relationship, they’ve taken responsibility for personal growth, overcoming fears and nurturing their well-being through various means. Realizing the need for freedom, they confront their ex about divorce, asserting control over their life. Ultimately, this act of empowerment leads to…
-

In the midst of what seemed like a challenging year, the author shares positive personal progress. They’ve discovered their inner strength, pursued self-expression, and addressed past traumas. They’ve also found joy in planning for the future, created a garden sanctuary, and focused on self-care. The year has transformed from difficult to fulfilling.
-

On the ex’s birthday, the writer chose to be civil, despite feeling angered by the ex’s actions. They found pleasure in disconnecting emotionally and discarding their ex’s belongings, feeling empowered. The writer recognizes their own righteousness and is unapologetic about their actions. The ex’s attempts to provoke them are ineffective.
-

After months of avoiding music for fear of triggering bad memories of her ex, the author describes reconnecting with her love of music and the joy of dancing in the kitchen. This is a huge, and longed for step, on the journey to wholeness.
-

The writer reflects on the slow process of emotional healing and self-improvement. They balance inner work with simpler physical care, finding joy in new routines. A playful, experimental approach is taken, trying various activities to discover what brings lasting improvement. The focus is on finding sustainable practices for mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
-

In the garden, observing the surroundings prompts thoughts on mindfulness. The cat’s contentedness, the noise of power tools, and a dog’s joy become symbols of perception’s subjectivity. Empowerment lies in choosing thoughts and emotions, redirecting negativity. Techniques like affirmations, mindfulness, breathing exercises, and creative activities aid in recentering. The goal is to cultivate a positive…
-
Rediscovering Self-Care Through Cooking for One: My Journey to Self-Love

Struggling with stress-induced nausea and lack of appetite, the writer realizes the stark contrast between her willingness to cook for her ex-partner and her neglect of self-care. Recognizing the need to redirect her nurturing energy toward herself, she reframes cooking for one as an act of self-love and worthiness.
