Artistic Creations
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A Blueprint for Love: Defining a Relationship Free of Shame and Control After Narcissistic Abuse
Artistic Creations, calm, Cooking, Dating, Exercise and Fitness, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Joy, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Self Healing, sex, travel, Writing
The content describes a loving and supportive relationship with a man named Bear. He is described as kind, supportive, and respectful. The author appreciates his encouragement, emotional support, and the way he enriches her life without overshadowing it. She expresses readiness to meet him in the real world when she feels healed and whole.
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The author traces their lifelong relationship with writing – their escape and ally – and shares how a 20-year marriage depleted them until they finally picked up the pen again to reclaim their voice, self-expression, and power.
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Why ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ is a Myth: Finding Your Chosen Family After Abuse
Addiction, Artistic Creations, calm, Childhood Trauma, Cooking, Dating, Family, Friends, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on the concept of unconditional acceptance, contrasting it with the popular notion that familial bonds should be prioritized. They emphasize the importance of finding and nurturing connections based on mutual choice rather than birth. Acknowledging their journey towards self-acceptance, the author discusses healing from negative self-talk and aims to build a supportive…
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The writer struggled with an annoying earworm, eventually rewriting the lyrics of a well known song that plagued them. They found joy in being creatively inspired and shared a reimagined version with uplifting, empowering lyrics. The post also mentions the hope that the original artists won’t be offended by the adaptation.
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Celebrating My Birthday: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Artistic Creations, Beer, calm, Cooking, DIY, Exercise and Fitness, Football, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on their 56th birthday as a transformative rebirth, celebrating personal growth after a difficult separation. They express pride in overcoming past fears and embracing self-care. A successful solo visit to a local craft beer bar solidifies this progress, highlighting newfound confidence and joy. The author anticipates further adventures and connections, feeling optimistic…
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Embracing Honesty: My Journey of Healing
abuse, Addiction, Artistic Creations, calm, Dating, Family, Friends, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, sex, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on the decision to share personal journals publicly through blogging, inspired by Sarah Millican’s autobiographical book. Writing helps process their journey through divorce and healing, including controversial topics like psilocybin use. They emphasize honesty and vulnerability, hoping to aid others by sharing their truth. Despite concerns about judgment, the author prioritizes authenticity…
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The author describes a transformative moment of self-realization, inspired by a podcast and a former teacher. They seek unconventional career opportunities, embracing support and encouragement from others. Despite jestful suggestions, they find empowerment in self-exploration, buoyed by personal growth and genuine connections. Uncertainty fuels excitement for an unpredictable future.
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The writer reflects on reclaiming her home after a breakup, finding joy in renovating and removing remnants of the past. She embraces new skills and takes pride in creating a space that reflects her vision. Despite occasional doubts, she feels lighter with each discarded item and aims to finish the major work by year-end. The…
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In the garden, observing the surroundings prompts thoughts on mindfulness. The cat’s contentedness, the noise of power tools, and a dog’s joy become symbols of perception’s subjectivity. Empowerment lies in choosing thoughts and emotions, redirecting negativity. Techniques like affirmations, mindfulness, breathing exercises, and creative activities aid in recentering. The goal is to cultivate a positive…
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From Emotional Abuse to Empowerment: A Personal Story
abuse, Addiction, Anxiety, Artistic Creations, Childhood Trauma, Cooking, DIY, garden, grief, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Physical Stress Responses, reading, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, Writing
The author reflects on personal growth after reading an impactful article about emotional abuse. A man, previously abusive, shares insights on how abusers target their partners’ strengths. The author recounts losing self-identity and confidence in a relationship where their individuality was stifled. Recognizing these patterns empowers them to reclaim their identity and confidence, initiating a…