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Why ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ is a Myth: Finding Your Chosen Family After Abuse
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The author reflects on the concept of unconditional acceptance, contrasting it with the popular notion that familial bonds should be prioritized. They emphasize the importance of finding and nurturing connections based on mutual choice rather than birth. Acknowledging their journey towards self-acceptance, the author discusses healing from negative self-talk and aims to build a supportive…
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The author has discovered a technique to shift from negativity to positivity by adding “but fortunately” to negative thoughts, finding silver linings in tough situations. Enduring years of negativity, the author seeks free resources to retrain thought patterns. Despite financial constraints, the “But fortunately” technique shows promise as a self-help method.
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The post reflects on the process of confronting past trauma, emphasizing the struggle with procrastination and self-acceptance. After a challenging task, the writer experiences intense emotions, including relief and sorrow, when realizing past abuse. The journey is framed as a path towards self-responsibility and empowerment. The day ultimately symbolizes progress, self-love, and reclaiming control over…
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The writer faces the heartbreaking reality of being cut off from their grandchildren due to their parents’ toxic relationship. This has led to a process of letting go, symbolized by packing up the grandchildren’s belongings. Amidst the pain, the writer focuses on personal growth and finding solace in possibilities ahead.
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The author reflects on the challenges of their tumultuous relationship with their alcoholic son, marked by cycles of co-dependence and toxicity. They made the difficult decision to stop enabling their son, resulting in deep fears about losing their grandchildren. Struggling with grief, especially after the loss of another child, the author grapples with feelings of…
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The writer grapples with the daunting parallels between their son and an ex-partner who caused similar distress. They detail the son’s harmful behaviors and their own internal conflict, questioning responsibility for fostering such attitudes. The emotional turmoil of contemplating intervention or eviction weighs heavily, compounded by a longing for supportive partnership.
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The author reflects on the emotional and mental challenges of revisiting past trauma through their public blog. Despite reluctance, they recognize the need for healing. Facing the discomfort and embracing the process becomes essential, symbolized by “eating the elephant one bite at a time.” The journey of self-discovery and acceptance continues.
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The author reflects on their struggle with intrusive thoughts that dominate their mind, leading to frustration and anger. They emphasize the realization that “I am not my thoughts,” and explore mindfulness and breathing techniques as methods to regain control. By acknowledging and naming disruptive thoughts, they work towards transforming the mind from a master to…
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The author reflects on her sudden, intense sexual desire triggered by a captivating new customer, revealing a longing for touch after years of feeling unappealing. She acknowledges that her past relationship with EH invalidated her confidence and desire, realizing now that her dissatisfaction stemmed from him, not her own nature. This insight proves empowering, reigniting…
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Recognising and Recovering from Marital Abuse
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If you ‘feel’ like you raped your partner, you almost certainly did. 26/06/24 TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of marital rape. DISCLAIMER: The contents of this post should NOT be taken as any form of advice or guidance; it is merely an account of a personal exploration. Any actions taken by others in relation to the contents…
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