Childhood Trauma
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The writer reflects on the slow process of emotional healing and self-improvement. They balance inner work with simpler physical care, finding joy in new routines. A playful, experimental approach is taken, trying various activities to discover what brings lasting improvement. The focus is on finding sustainable practices for mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
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The writer grapples with the conflict between “should” and “need,” rooted in a childhood where self-care was deemed selfish. Despite relentless work at home and emotional turmoil, the decision to prioritize self-care begins to ease their anxiety. Ultimately, they affirm their right to prioritize their wellbeing and embrace self-care as essential.
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Pivotal Moments TRIGGER WARNING – Includes discussion of sexual assaults, abuse, family breakdown, criminal behaviour and homelessness. 30/06/24 By the time I reached fifteen years old, my relationship with mother and her husband (Rassgat) had utterly broken down. She’d long since made it clear to me that she valued her relationship with him more than…
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The writer reflects on their decision to pursue higher education as a mature student and the impact it had on their relationship. Despite initial support, their partner’s resentment grows, leading to a breakdown in communication and understanding. The writer expresses hurt and frustration, questioning the selfishness and lack of empathy from their partner.
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The author reflects on a painful wedding day marred by their partner’s alcoholism. Despite requesting sobriety, the groom drank before the ceremony and spent the day ignoring the bride’s emotional needs. The author grapples with feelings of regret and self-blame, yet recognizes the importance of self-compassion. A symbolic act of discarding wedding rings signifies moving…
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Reframing Childhood Trauma: Unveiling Harmful Beliefs
The writer traces the link between traumatic childhood experiences and harmful adult behaviors, focusing on a specific incident of unjust punishment. The impact of this experience is examined, revealing the writer’s journey of self-healing and recognition of unhealthy coping mechanisms. Through mindfulness and self-compassion, they seek to overcome past trauma and embrace their true self.
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The writer reflects on an ex-partner who had idealized her, only to be disillusioned by her imperfections. She seeks genuine love and acceptance, realizing the importance of self-worth and not settling for less. Quoting Sarah Millican, she embraces the idea of being with someone who truly values her. Self-acceptance and growth are ongoing goals.
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The author shares the prolonged struggle with bedwetting as a child and the emotional toll it took. Despite various attempts to find a solution, the pressure and punishment only worsened the anxiety. The writing explores the lasting impact of childhood trauma and the beginning of self-healing through inner child work, providing comfort and hope for…
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The writer reflects on a past relationship marked by infidelity and self-doubt. Despite sensing betrayal, fear of losing the partner led to self-devaluation. Determined to prioritize self-worth and independence, the writer commits to strengthening their self-respect through various means. This marks a decisive shift towards valuing oneself above all.
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The author reflects on a podcast discussing women’s self-care and liberation through masturbation. They acknowledge feeling shame and loneliness associated with solo sexual pleasure due to past emotional pain. A podcast empowers them to prioritize their own pleasure and overcome thoughts of an absent partner. They express struggles in fully embracing this mindset, but determination…
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