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Rediscovering Self-Care Through Cooking for One: My Journey to Self-Love

Apr 29, 2025

abuse, Anxiety, Cooking, Exercise and Fitness, grief, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, Physical Health And Appearance, Physical Stress Responses, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing

abuse, change, conquering, detachment, divorce, evolution, food, grief, healing, independence, loneliness, love addiction, marriage, nutrition, past, patterns, plan, puking, recovery, regret, self help, self worth, strength, stress, The Vow, withdrawal

Struggling with stress-induced nausea and lack of appetite, the writer realizes the stark contrast between her willingness to cook for her ex-partner and her neglect of self-care. Recognizing the need to redirect her nurturing energy toward herself, she reframes cooking for one as an act of self-love and worthiness.
Coping with Grief: Redefining My Space and Myself after Loss

Jan 13, 2025

Exercise and Fitness, grief, loneliness, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Physical Stress Responses, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Self Healing, Struggling

exercise, fitness, heartbreak, loss, marriage, no plan, plan, separation

The author reflects on the difficulties of returning to an empty house after loss, grappling with memories and solitude. To combat despair, they embark on a fitness journey, purchasing workout equipment to fill empty spaces and regain a sense of purpose. There’s also a hope that improved fitness might rekindle past affections.
Embracing Evolution: A Journey Through Grief

Jan 7, 2025

Anxiety, Family, grief, Letting Go, loneliness, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Physical Stress Responses, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Self Healing, Struggling, Therapy

evolution, food, heartbreak, help, marriage, nutrition, plan, puking, separation, stress, The Vow

The author grapples with the emotional aftermath of a life-altering event. They struggle with finding meaning in the pain and seek to navigate their way to emotional well-being. Despite feeling adrift, they’re determined to evolve beyond their current state. Self-care efforts offer little solace, and they begin seeking structure and a sense of purpose.