Healthy Boundaries
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A drunk lodger, a rogue beech nut, and a street confrontation: this journal entry details the bizarre events of a week and the powerful discovery that boundaries can now be held without fear or trauma response.
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In this raw recovery journal, the author explores how past moments of shame – from childhood bullying to standing by during an attack – became the necessary fuel to redefine their life, find courage, and finally start to fully heal from childhood abuse and marriage to a covert narcissistic.
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Why ‘Blood is Thicker Than Water’ is a Myth: Finding Your Chosen Family After Abuse
Addiction, Artistic Creations, calm, Childhood Trauma, Cooking, Dating, Family, Friends, garden, Healthy Boundaries, Interests, Letting Go, loneliness, Mental Health, mindfulness, Music, nature, regret, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy, travel, Writing
The author reflects on the concept of unconditional acceptance, contrasting it with the popular notion that familial bonds should be prioritized. They emphasize the importance of finding and nurturing connections based on mutual choice rather than birth. Acknowledging their journey towards self-acceptance, the author discusses healing from negative self-talk and aims to build a supportive…
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In a recent phone conversation, the author shared personal decisions with their mother, including a new surname and the choice to stop sending gifts to certain family members. The mother’s disapproving responses prompted reflection on their growth, as they realized they no longer seek approval from her. In contrast, a supportive friend, Altan, validated their…
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I’m So Glad He Left: Reaching the Pinnacle of Detachment After Narcissistic Abuse
abuse, Addiction, Anxiety, calm, Childhood Trauma, Family, grief, Healthy Boundaries, Joy, Letting Go, Marriage & Divorce, Mental Health, mindfulness, Personal Presentation, Physical Health And Appearance, Psychedelics, Relationship Styles And Behaviour, relationships, Release, Self Healing, Therapy
The author reflects on the liberation felt after a difficult relationship, expressing gratitude for their ex-partner’s absence. They discuss personal healing, recognizing growth characterized by newfound clarity and independence. Despite lingering anger, there is a sense of cautious optimism about the future. The internal struggle between past pain and emerging self is acknowledged, showing progress…
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The author expresses deep gratitude for Frazzled Café, a supportive community that aids emotional healing. Despite feeling a unique sadness post-psilocybin macrodose, the author finds solace through mindfulness practices and the understanding of group members. The Café provides a judgment-free space for sharing and connection, fostering personal growth and resilience. Attending meetings is emphasized as…
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The author describes a transformative personal experience centered on self-care, breaking from their usual pattern by taking a mental health day off work. After initially feeling guilty, they embrace the necessity of prioritizing their own needs. They engage in restorative activities, including enjoying comfort food, tackling daunting tasks, and connecting with supportive communities, ultimately feeling…
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This post outlines the author’s personal journey with psilocybin use, emphasizing the importance of a structured “container” for safe and beneficial experiences. Key elements include preparation, setting intentions, ensuring a supportive environment, and performing integration work post-trip. The author shares five progressive intentions aimed at emotional healing and personal growth, highlighting the significance of mindset…
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Venting to Let Go 26/10/24 DISCLAIMER: The contents of this post should NOT be taken as any form of advice or guidance; it is merely an account of a personal exploration. Any actions taken by others in relation to the contents of this post are entirely their own responsibility. Consideration should always be given to…
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After ending a relationship, the author reflects on changing their ex’s name in their phone as a therapeutic step. Initially resistant, the author adopted increasingly humorous names, eventually settling on “Three” to signify being the third marriage. This decision provided emotional detachment, reduced negative reactions, and highlighted the importance of small actions in reclaiming personal…
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