Marriage & Divorce
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The writer reflects on a past relationship marked by infidelity and self-doubt. Despite sensing betrayal, fear of losing the partner led to self-devaluation. Determined to prioritize self-worth and independence, the writer commits to strengthening their self-respect through various means. This marks a decisive shift towards valuing oneself above all.
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The author reflects on a podcast discussing women’s self-care and liberation through masturbation. They acknowledge feeling shame and loneliness associated with solo sexual pleasure due to past emotional pain. A podcast empowers them to prioritize their own pleasure and overcome thoughts of an absent partner. They express struggles in fully embracing this mindset, but determination…
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The author reflects on their past relationships and the realization that they have only spent a year as a fully independent adult. They vow to prioritize their own happiness, refusing to compromise themselves for others. They recognize the need to address deep-rooted behaviours before considering future relationships.
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In the garden, observing the surroundings prompts thoughts on mindfulness. The cat’s contentedness, the noise of power tools, and a dog’s joy become symbols of perception’s subjectivity. Empowerment lies in choosing thoughts and emotions, redirecting negativity. Techniques like affirmations, mindfulness, breathing exercises, and creative activities aid in recentering. The goal is to cultivate a positive…
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The author reflects on her ex’s abandonment of their grandchildren, attributing his behavior to a consistent pattern of shirking responsibility. Despite the pain, she finds solace in detaching from the toxic relationship and cherishing the joy of having her grandchildren. This healing process, though painful, brings about a newfound sense of peace and self-restoration.
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The author reflects on the themes of courage and gratitude, emphasizing their complex relationship with their ex, who struggled with addiction. While they acknowledge playing a role as a catalyst, they stress that true courage was shown by the ex in overcoming his addiction. The author expresses gratitude for the ex’s departure, leading to personal…
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The author reflects on her experiences of constantly yielding to others and her efforts to prioritize her own needs. She acknowledges the unhealthy pattern of seeking approval and affection through selfless acts, and the lack of reciprocity in her relationships. She resolves to establish boundaries and cease futile efforts to change others.
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The author discovered her estranged husband is seeing someone else after he took the person to their former workplace and behaved affectionately. A colleague informed her, and he admitted it when she confronted him. She’s enraged at his cowardice and manipulation. Despite the initial shock, she’s relieved to escape the toxic dynamic and is on…
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The author processes a past incident, where she contemplates calling the police after being assaulted by her brother-in-law. Her mother convinces her not to. She feels betrayed by her husband’s lack of support and his family’s dismissal of the incident. Writing about her experience brings her some relief and clarity, and she hopes to move…
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The author expresses anguish over their ex’s lack of transparency regarding major life changes and the impending end of their marriage. The ex’s nonchalant attitude and lack of remorse deepen the author’s pain, but they still hope for a compassionate outcome for the grandchildren. Despite trying to move on, they struggle to extinguish all hope.
Jessica's Journey 