Addiction
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The author reflects on the challenges of their tumultuous relationship with their alcoholic son, marked by cycles of co-dependence and toxicity. They made the difficult decision to stop enabling their son, resulting in deep fears about losing their grandchildren. Struggling with grief, especially after the loss of another child, the author grapples with feelings of…
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The writer reflects on their ex-partner’s habit of sending photos of shared memories, initially evoking hope and grief. Over time, the act becomes hurtful, prompting the writer to respond with detachment. Ultimately, they embrace self-discovery and healing, refusing to dwell in sorrow or self-blame. This journey signifies a significant personal advancement and self-empowerment.
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The writer reflects on their struggle with fear of change in relationships, fearing loneliness and seeking to be the catalyst for change in others. They share experiences with their son and ex-partner, realizing the need to accept reality and not cling to false hope. They emphasize the importance of recognizing people’s true nature and not…
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The author faced a difficult decision to ask their alcoholic son to leave the house due to his inappropriate behavior. The son’s defensive reaction confirmed the necessity of the decision. Despite feeling anxiety and sorrow, the author found inner calm and relief, recognizing the importance of setting boundaries for both their healing.
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The writer grapples with the daunting parallels between their son and an ex-partner who caused similar distress. They detail the son’s harmful behaviors and their own internal conflict, questioning responsibility for fostering such attitudes. The emotional turmoil of contemplating intervention or eviction weighs heavily, compounded by a longing for supportive partnership.
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The author reflects on the emotional and mental challenges of revisiting past trauma through their public blog. Despite reluctance, they recognize the need for healing. Facing the discomfort and embracing the process becomes essential, symbolized by “eating the elephant one bite at a time.” The journey of self-discovery and acceptance continues.
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The writer experienced a deeply emotional response to Avicii’s song “Hey Brother,” feeling a profound sense of connection and comfort in the lyrics. The song’s message of support and love resonated with the writer’s personal struggles, leading to a powerful and uplifting experience akin to a spiritual moment.
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Embracing Honesty: My Journey of Healing
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The author reflects on the decision to share personal journals publicly through blogging, inspired by Sarah Millican’s autobiographical book. Writing helps process their journey through divorce and healing, including controversial topics like psilocybin use. They emphasize honesty and vulnerability, hoping to aid others by sharing their truth. Despite concerns about judgment, the author prioritizes authenticity…
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On the ex’s birthday, the writer chose to be civil, despite feeling angered by the ex’s actions. They found pleasure in disconnecting emotionally and discarding their ex’s belongings, feeling empowered. The writer recognizes their own righteousness and is unapologetic about their actions. The ex’s attempts to provoke them are ineffective.
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After months of avoiding music for fear of triggering bad memories of her ex, the author describes reconnecting with her love of music and the joy of dancing in the kitchen. This is a huge, and longed for step, on the journey to wholeness.